Church Is Not For Me

I saw this video earlier today and really liked it. I think it speaks for itself.

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Praying For Schools Really Works

After posting my last blog regarding praying for our local secondary school, I received a message from an old school friend which I think is a real encouragement to be praying for the school. I’ve reproduced the edited highlights here, with his permission and with the names disguised for privacy reasons.

“Hi Paul! 

…the thing that spurred me on to get in touch was reading about your initiative for praying for your local school – what a great idea! I don’t know if you were aware of this, but there was a similar group that met to pray for our school about 10 years ago (when we were young whipper-snappers!). 

I used to go along to these meetings, along with a couple of other people, and I can remember that we once had a brainwave to pray for members of staff there, so I mentioned Miss P, my form tutor at the time in year 10/11. (If you can’t remember her, she was the R.E. teacher with blonde hair). At the time, she wasn’t a christian (AH asked her if she was once, to which she replied “Er…. no, definitely not!”), and we decided to pray that God would work in her life, and that she might hear the gospel and be saved. We did this a few times, and then to be honest, I think we kind of forgot about it…

Recently, I’ve had the privilege of going back into our school to speak in the CU, and guess what? Miss P  tells me that she became a christian just after we left the sixth form!!! Isn’t God good?!!

Another thing I remember is a guy in the year above us called L coming along to the CU. At the time, I think he came along because it was a good place to meet people and have a bit of fun, although again, he wouldn’t have called himself a christian. Again, he was one of the guys we prayed for at those meetings, and again, God faithfully answered our prayers – he heard the gospel at uni and was saved as a student!

Can I just encourage you with these two examples to pray expectantly for your school? You may not see answers to prayer immediately (although God is God, and He can do what He likes, so He may surprise you!), but be assured that He is powerful, and that prayer works!

By the way, your high school CU is in good company; our CU got banned from eating food in classrooms in 2003 immediately after an evangelistic meeting with free donuts!!! (Sounds familiar!) Similarly, it caused attendance to plummet, and again, it was very much an issue that we prayed about as a CU, and as part of that prayer meeting. I think in the end, after much prayer, we wrote a letter to Mr G explaining our predicament, and asking for exemption for the CU to be able to eat in classrooms. At first, this was fiercely refused by the powers that be, although about a week later, I was called to a meeting with Mr L and Mr G, where they said that they’d had a change of heart, and would give us permission to eat in classrooms! Bearing in mind the resistance that we’d previously faced, I still believe that was a clear example of God’s hand at work, and a real life (albeit mini!) miracle! 

So yeah, one thing I learned at our school is that God really is faithful and that he does answer prayer! (A much more useful lesson than Maths with Mrs W, in my opinion! :P) Do press on with praying for your school, even if there are only a few of you (there were 3 – 5 people at our one), and see what God does!

God Bless

Andrew”

What a great encouragement for us to hear as we start to think about praying for our local school. I hope that encouragement like this will lead us to come to prayer expectantly and trusting that God will open doors for the gospel.

Education: The Biggest Idol of Our Age?

That’s the question I want to throw out there.

One of my biggest frustrations in youth ministry is trying to get young people to prioritise their faith, over and above their education. This is a particular struggle around the exam season in January anad May/June. It’s during those periods that some of our young people drop of the radar almost completely as they say they need to revise and don’t have time to come along to church/youth group at the moment.

The constant cry I hear from young people is how important this year or these exams are. I’ve even heard young people trying to outdo each other as to who has the most work at the moment and therefore who is the most busy. Now don’t get me wrong, I’ve not got a downer on education as such and I can definitely see that education/higher education is right for some people and even that God uses it to get people where he wants them etc. I can’t really deny that as I’m a graduate myself and my theology degree has no doubt helped me in my line of work. But I know that it doesn’t make me or define me, and even though it has its uses, I probably could have made better use of 3 years simply by sitting and studying my Bible everyday with some solid Christians around me.

My issue is the lie that our young people seem to be buying into. The lie that their education is basically the most important thing in the world. When I was at school, here’s a rough outline of what the teachers would say to us in the different year groups.

Year 7 – This is the most important year as it’s your first year at secondary school and will really define how you’ll do in the future.

Year 8 – This is the most important year as last year was really just an introduction. This is the real work and how you do now will affect what sets you’re in next year.

Year 9 – This is your SAT’s year. This is the most important as it’ll decide what GCSE’s you’ll do.

Year 10/11 – Your GCSE years are the most important as these will define your future.

AS/A Level – Basically your GCSE’s now count for nothing. You need to get good results so you can go to uni. Oh  and a lot of what we taught you before wasn’t strictly true.

Degree – All that stuff before now means nothing. People will only care about your degree.

OK so I know that’s a sweeping generalisation, but I think there’s a lot of truth in it. The thing is, the whole things a bit of an anti-climax. At the end all you get is a piece of paper. Now I know that along the way you’ve acquired knowledge and transferable skills etc and those are undoubtedly valuable for many areas of life. But the eternal reality is, it doesn’t really mean a lot. On judgement day, I don’t think Jesus will be asking how we scored in our GCSE History paper.

Let me just reiterate again. I don’t think education is wrong, but I think it has become an idol, one which our young people, parents and churches have bought into. Why as churches do we celebrate the young person who got 11 A*’s but who wasn’t seen at church/youth group/bible study for over a month during the exam season? Why do we not celebrate the young person who scored  D’s and E’s but tried their hardest and still kept their relationship with Jesus as the highest priority in their life. Surely that is the more Godly way?

The thing is, I think parents have bought into this as well. I reckon that if I stood at the front of church and asked parents for a show of hands as to what was more important: their child’s relationship with Jesus or their education, then most parents would say that their child’s relationship with Jesus was more important. But I don’t think that crosses over into practice so much. I’ve heard a lot of parents say something along the lines of “so and so can’t come along at the moment because they’ve got so much work on.” In many ways this is probably a wider parenting issue than simply education. I just don’t think that a lot of parents encourage their children in their faith, at least not much. I know lots of parents who say that their child isn’t really interested in church and they don’t like to try to force them in case it drives them away. The result is they do nothing. But let’s flip that into an education setting. If a child wakes up on Monday morning and say “I don’t want to go to school today,” what does a parents say? They say tough, get up, you’re going. They wouldn’t take any nonsense. But when their child says they don’t want to go to church or youth group, they back off. Parents are happy to encourage their children to go to school and work hard, even though from an eternal perspective, it will mean nothing, but they won’t encourage them to go to church/make time for youth groups/bible study which just may well have some bearing on their eternal salvation. Bananas!

And what drives so many of our young Christian’s choice of university? For the most part I would say it is its academic record. Now of course we’ll want to take that into account, but I wonder how many of our young people are considering their choice of uni based on whether or not it has a flourishing Christian union or solid Bible teaching churches in its locality. Shouldn’t that ultimately play more of a part? Don’t get me wrong, some parents definitely prioritise their children’s faith and are working hard to show their children that Jesus needs to be the priority in their life, and of course there are young people who prioritise their faith. It’s just sad that I think these people are probably in the minority.

Now I know this is easy for me to say as I’m not a parent and of course the reality of making this happen in practice is a lot more complicated. I’ve also been through the education system and achieved relatively highly. But I think that has simply helped me see the emptiness of academic achievement and so I think the principle I’m suggesting is right. A relationship with Jesus is worth far more than education. When I became a Christian, my priorities changed. Of course I had a lot of school work and exams, just like everyone else. But going to church on Sunday and to youth group in the evening were set in stone priorities. Any work or revision had to fit around them. The model I tend to see from a lot of young people is Jesus has to fit around my school work and if he doesn’t, he’s out.

I don’t think our churches are helping. Us middle class academics can tend to get a bit caught up in this whole education thing. We like big words and debate but we forget that the early church was started by relatively uneducated fisherman types. Not a degree in sight. They just relied on God. I wonder sometimes whether we’ve stopped relying on God and are relying on our understanding, our knowledge and the systems our Bible colleges have provided to pick apart scripture. If it’s not intellectual and deep then we must be getting it wrong.  But what a challenge it is to hear Jesus say that we need to receive him like a little child. What a challenge it was for me at the carol service of the special needs school to think about how the gospel is relevant even for those whose understanding may be severely limited.

I guess I’m just calling for perspective, some eternal perspective. Education is a great gift from God, but when it becomes the be all and end all and replaces God in our lives, it becomes an idol. It’s a classic example of us taking something that God has given us for good and making something bad of it. It’s because of my thoughts above that I will never ask my young people what grades they’ve achieved in their exams. That makes no difference to me. I will be asking them how their relationship with Jesus is going though.

Is education the biggest idol of our age? It’s a big claim and maybe it can’t take the crown, but I’m sure it must be up there.

p.s. immediately after I posted this I went on facebook and a friends status read as follows:

‎… “just so you know, from those of us who have been through the education system, all those things that you’re learning day to day… all the subjects and all the quotes and all of that stuff when you get out in to the real world, when you’re looking for work and meeting people, that stuff, is vital.” Dara O’Brien

I rest my case!